Episode 3 - The Self-protection in the current world I.
In this episode, you can learn about aspects of security from the perspective of an individual. It is focused on general principles and the inner and outer aspects of self-protection. All of that is mentioned to give you an option to look at security differently.
To unlock and understand some of the main points of this episode, you can use these keys:
The hard stuff is not the end it´s part of a process of self-cultivation.
Good protection is the never-ending story of good (self) reflection.
When you are gonna sense a situation fully and naturally you can perceive better how you can work with elements and aspects of a concrete situation, like which kind of ingredient you need to add to the cocktail to balance a situation, to redirect it to work with it generally, even if it goes through seconds.
And as always what needs to be said:
Arising power in the deepest darkest time is never forgotten as a good friend who gets your back.
I would be happy if you join me.
Thank you.
Red Fox
The full transcription of this episode is below.
Encounter with Lady Fox in 2025.
Hey guys,
How are you doing? I miss you.
Firstly, I want to apologize to you for being late to issue this episode. Thanks to serious reasons, I had pretty limited options to work on it. I am not happy about that, and I am not happy about looking like a human who doesn't keep word. It is not good, and I do not like it by myself. I am going to reduce from now on publishing to one episode per a month until it is better. I am sorry.
Now, let´s go to the core of this episode and do the best.
The self-protection in the current world (part and level 1). Although the part and level are not the same it works the both ways, in this case.
If there is something that needs to be continuously reflected, processed, and developed, it is the system of self-protection on an individual level. It is totally crucial.
Firstly, please, just relax. Breathe in and out, stretch your body a bit, and feel free, empty, open, focused, and grounded no matter anything around. That could be a good start. According to me, it is the best way how to operate well with information from the environment and as well yourself.
Being free with free hands means also you are ready but calm. No need to show power if it doesn´t have a good reason. You save it for the right moment as a jaguar. Then your power is concentrated inside.
Let me slightly divide self-protection into several blocks for better orientation and structure.
Those blocks are general principles and inner and outer aspects of self-protection. All compounds are mixed in unique cocktails changing their taste and character in a time.
Today I will talk more generally as an intro to this field.
General principles or aspects
Imagine for now this world as a big substile network where every human represents a spot like a being a figure on a 4D chess board. The same works for animals, plants too but for now just focus on humans. Every spot has its own subnetwork. We are moving so we continuously change our position towards other spots around us and it works both ways. So you can see and you are part of unique constellations all the time. As well, We are under the influence of many aspects and spots. We affect the world around us too, even if we are not aware of it. As the Earth is under the influence of the powers in the Universe.
In addition, It works on multiple levels.
It has a connection to individual perspective too. In every situation that you are part of, you are in a specific position towards the world and its aspects and other spots, it is a unique constellation. You usually see just part of a playground and situation from your spot and specific angle. It is a good practice to see more and more aspects, a bigger part of a playground, or more levels of it from an individual's point of view.
It goes through many barriers.
According to me there is logical point if you sometimes change your inner or physical position in some situation you can get another perspective that can be very useful. You can put another person under a specific influence, or constellation to for example see someone or yourself through a different perspective, or angle or just work with a situation generally. But as well there is option that someone will try to trick you by creating a specific aspects of situation, or constellation with some intention to influence you in some way.
That´s why I am talking about decoding situations and people. Because it is not just about how situations look like but how they are coded and what is real message in the code. So go to the core, to the root of a message. It looks easy but there are people, groups who can very well imitate a lot of things. So decoding lies, and traps on a high level is a big thing.
Then It depends on your ability to read signals, to read constellations and information through pure high vision with a good level of self-reflection.
Among individual spots there are interactions and it could be a kind of communication if I do not count verbal contact for now. These interactions and their consequences or results can be to some point or percentage part of your awareness but in some cases not necessarily. You do not need to realize that completely. Plus there are more levels as the onion has more layers.
Another general aspect according to me is the point we are open systems. Our bodies are dependent on getting substances from outside like air, water, and some food to get good option to stay alive. Your body is usually as well trying to adapt to the environment by balancing and regulating its own system. Adaptation and energetic reservoirs are very key points for your body. Our whole being is able to get more information from the environment than we usually realize. Then we limit ourselves.
So what my previous points could mean in security?
You usually do not know which kind of situation you could face until is coming or it is better visible to you. Unique constellations.
It is not just about to visit high-risky places, states, etc. It could be easily just about being in proper time on a concrete place and you could become part of something that is not easy to go through or even survive. In some cases maybe you would never even imagine it could happen. No matter who you are. But we need to understand and realize, there are a lot of possibilities. Unlimited options of constellations with other spots and aspects in dynamic time.
Here is the next general aspect or principle but let's say is more substile, and it is just my perspective.
Personally, I have started to perceive my life as a kind of interaction among my awareness and all my being with its aspects through everything around me, all situations and their aspects.
Then I am under a process of self-awareness, self-understanding, self-determinating, self-realizing, and others. It is a life journey. And everything leads to the queen of that and it is self-cultivation.
What that could mean in security from an individual point. My small example right now. The issue I have encountered so many risks, I will talk gradually about such situations since I was a child, and being prey so many times plus access to specific kinds of perceptions and recognizing my own inner natural security system and other aspects of it plus having a higher sensitivity to people with pathologies and skilled people in the security field and selectively higher skills towards this range ...all of that aspects create crazy and specific scenarios and conditions, and are part of scenario through which I need or better to say I have to grow and cultivate myself. Of course, it starts by keeping myself safe but then another hard job is getting started.
One time last year after a security or health issue, a bit harder one for me, someone very close to me told me after that it is just training for you. That person said to me a brilliant thing and as well became a good observer of my life journey sometimes. At that moment I stopped to regret myself for what happened. I got calm and I understood and accepted the situation. It is part of my journey now. So If I have to go through it 1000 times more I will do my best.
Such an approach is important for me on two levels. Firstly I had to move further my inner borders to what I could go through and extend my reservoir of inner power. Plus it gives me better instrument and environment in my soul to work with myself better. We need to physically survive dangerous situations and pass it but there can be even pretty more serious consequences and results inside of ourselves that are usually forgotten, suppressed, or misunderstood. And I didn´t add yet possible visible results of hard situations.
That´s why I said by passing dangerous situation another hard job gets started.
Because the whole being needs to go through.
When we ignore our souls, and inner world we can physically survive one dangerous situation after another but it will be like drinking one drink after another, getting one girl or man after another, one drug dose after another, etc. We physically survive but your inner part is somewhere else not with you. We need to bring it back a go through the complete process with ourselves.
It has the same importance as surviving a situation physically.
Healing.
Forgotten process of many warriors. They have got instruments to survive and fight and fix problems in concrete situations but they could miss instruments to heal and cultivate themselves in a softer way. If you get only hard power you will miss something another in yourself. And one day one time it will call you to integrate this aspect too. But the thing is such calls are not sometimes heard, understood, and processed until there is a bigger or damn hard crush.
And there is a bit of connection to small point if someone wants to look like very hard and very resistant sometimes it is just about pressing the right spots,buttons in specific ways at a suitable time and the system could fall apart as a broken piece of glass.
Healing is a process and it is everything. It is love to yourself. And after every hard situation, your inner being could ask you for love and a helping hand to a friend, to the best one, to YOURSELF.
Personally, I understand for now I can not ask for comfort in life, and I can not ask for life to have no more risks than what I have faced already.
I can´t establish my life in the way I will never face enemies again.
I want to go through everything rather I would stick with the point please no aggressor in my life, no serious disease anymore etc. Because then I will never escape inside of me of hard stuff. I want to be free in my soul with my free hands for the situation and with LOVE in my being and gratefulness no matter in which situation I am.
I am With love and cruel power to protect.
So I accept I am cultivating myself through my life no matter what I cross on my journey.
It is my individual perspective and it is an important point because we need to become Masters of our individual paths. I have to go higher and higher in myself to survive more and more and to heal myself more and more. And now it is everything. I love myself more. I am grateful more and I have become freer. I extend myself for my life path because I deserve the Best no matter of what I have to go through.
Such an approach gives me a calmer soul in hard times of my life and a calm soul in danger but it doesn t mean there are no processes, emotions, ets. Of course, everything could arise but I am a magician to me. I want to be because I need to be it for myself. So I have become it and learning how to make it in the way. Everything for my journey.
If I am a redhead then I am born to go through red hell. And in this case, hell means a high concentration of hard stuff, not gravity to an essence of Evil. It is not the same. I am learning to smell bad things so well before they are gonna be well visible or even done. Guess why? I was born to protect light so how I could ask my life to be comfortable and easy? I just can´t.
If I have to go through a moment of facing enemies 1000 times again I will go.
I do not realize yet to the highest level of nature why all that happened or happens, I do not see my whole soul journey yet and have not read all aspects of that but with time I can get it, especially if I cultivate myself through it and work with myself on higher and higher level.
For me, It is a natural law. It doesn t mean it is nice or good if we are going through hard stuff but we need to grow. And it doesn´t mean I want to repeate my mistakes but sometimes story behind can be deeper.
We never know to which mission we are cultivating ourselves and have to go through some specific things or situations. You don´t see it at that moment, the whole thing behind you, your whole story. And maybe it's not such important at the moment when you are facing risk because firstly you need to go through it and pass it but it could be like an invisible code which could strongly affect your life and you don´t see it. So it is not bad to see and read powers in background, behind the curtain and in the corners or shadows.
It works generally.
It doesn´t need to make sense for others but you are a prominent reader of your soul book and life book. So read it well. It is gonna be your thing.
You are here to meet yourself.
Inner aspects
Now we immerse ourselves in inner aspects of self-protection. How do I define inner aspects for now? Let´s simplify it, it is your hardware – body, your software: operational mode, mindset, your regimes and approaches, then your soul, your heart, everything. The Whole of you. Everything plays its own role. It is like a cocktail, some aspects are always changing, from your health condition, and your mood, to applying new regimes, work, etc. You are working with vibrant material with specific characters like plasma. Then It is good to perceive yourself well. From the body to the soul and to be damn honest to yourself. It is a baseline. Guess why?
Because everyone operates his own being so it is up to you generally to work with yourself and your system. It is nothing new, I know. But how do you want to operate yourself well if you are constantly lying to yourself?
You can get yourself easily in a blind way.
Plus in a hard situation, you could face a lot of things in one moment, your shadows, fears, old traumas, the whole real situation and its consequences, etc it could hit you in a very sensitive moment or place and trigger another hard stuff. It is like a complete mess but it is workable, especially with a clean head and pure heart.
In a hard situation, everything goes to the core, to the raw essence of life with many aspects of it. And they can be very hard, raw and painful. It is a damn individual experience.
Now let's go a little bit back to the basic structure of inner aspects. Some of them deserve the whole episode and they will get it. The Queen of that is OPERATIONAL AWARENESS and FREQUENCY, or operational mode or level but I prefer the previous terms. It is how you operate your own system through level of you awareness. And as well, logically, how you operate the information and signals from the environment and process that through response, and reaction in real-time in real situations. Plus how you operate and create your instruments, etc.
I know there is a popular term SA situational awareness. For me is sub part of operational awareness and frequency but very important. The term Situational awareness is defined through the outer aspect, and it is the situation. But the higher aspect is inner. The leader. YOU. Your awareness and your frequency.
So firstly I need to operate myself well, reflect myself well to be mature, etc to have pure vision and pure reading, and to be able to act purely.
They can be people with selectively high skills in reading environments but the way how they will work with that will be not such high by itself.
Like person with high pathology can have high sensitivity to the environment but will use that thing in a different way than a high is.
You are the operator of yourself and situations. This topic deserves its own episode. It is more than important.
In my perspective Operational frequency, awareness is a concentrated part of you led and directed in a super specific way.
Plus maybe, there is something more than just an aspect of you. There is an aspect of The Universe too. The place when Micro and Macro get connected together. In some super hard situations, your senses and perception could become super developed or you can meet something as a deep leader or very specific substile powers like spiritual ones which can assist you, and they suit to situation perfectly.
Our operational level can be easily damn low. Through many generations, humankind has created a lot of things to let some of us live a comfortable life relatively. And that could be a little problem in some way because we are getting used to having everything comfortable when we are not facing enemies, our vulnerability and fragility of life, our shadows, traumas, obstacles, whatever in a raw way then we are not asked for developing ourselves as well through hard moments, and then we can´t get to the point we do need to understand it is part of the process of self-cultivation.
Hard stuff is not the end of everything, it is a challenge for Cultivation.
Cultivation of humans is not valuable for many societies similarly as our connection to our roots, and to the Earth naturally. It is just not about esoteric or spiritual stuff but it doesn´t mean there is no connection.
We are born to be humans and to perceive danger, we are part of nature, but we are not listening to it. We are isolated from it and disconnected. It is understandable to some point but it's a pity. It is just about ignoring our natural character and origin.
When you are becoming more connected to nature, to your roots, your natural character, and origin with pure self-determination and self-reflection then you get a better option to operate situations on higher and higher level of nature, because you reach higher and higher frequency of nature to some point. Then You have become a real alchemist you sense which kind of element needs to be worked with to operate with a situation to balance it, to redirect it, etc. it even if it goes through seconds.
Sometimes you can do everything but you can´t save someone´s life or yourself. That´s true and it deserves its own time with its own procedures and processes but if it hasn´t happened yet until that moment game is open, no matter how critical a moment could arise.
If our time to leave our bodies is coming we wish to reach our home but there is no need to easily give our life out earlier to the hands of evil, offender, or bad decision maker no matter who that person is towards us.
There are individual life paths and it is a very important part of a package but we are all humans.
Well, what about other inner aspects?
Body. Mindset. Heart and soul or spirit.
Aspect of your body. Well, I am sure it makes sense. Generally, your health condition, in every kind of its way, is part of every situation that you could face or where you are just now. The only question is which role and importance will have it in concrete situation. Detailed aspects of it will be mentioned gradually in the following episodes.
Mindset.
It is an interesting part. Our Mind, oh my goodness, it's a crazy instrument but is hard to operate it well.
The thing is to make it clean regularly and reflect on yourself. It is a baseline of any action.
Aspects of mindset and its instruments are connected to our soul and spirit, emotional part, life values etc. Everything is connected somehow. It goes through the whole being. You are always a mix of parts, individual components and that is changing, unique constellations, but if you want to work with one muscle you can try to isolate it more and stretch or strengthen it and see how it goes.
For now, I am gonna mention a few points here.
Aspects of self-determination and self-reflection I mentioned these points already several times before so I will stay a bit calmer about that for now. I Just add one magical sentence:
Good protection is never ending story of good self-reflection.
It is not the whole story, but it plays own role. Secondly, I am gonna mention two cases where the aspect of self-determination plays its role.
Some years ago I was biking to my office and I got used to go through the center of the capitol by underground. It was morning rush hour when I got in the space of metro station, and I needed to check if my permanent ticket for public traffic was still applying or expired. I put my bike, a good one, my love, by the wall several meters away from the verifying machine.
I was preparing my ticket or something like that and I noticed two very big guys how they are coming in my direction but still a good distance among us. Then they got separated, one of them went exactly on me and became the obstacle like a wall between me and my bike, where I can not have visual contact with my baby, and another one goes around from the backside exactly towards my love.
I read the scenario of that situation. I said to myself damn they want my bike, my love. I said directly just in my head at that moment. I will not give you my baby.
I interrupted their plan with my physical act but calm one like nothing happenes but I let them see, it is my baby. Your plan will not work here. This baby is not for you. They disappeared immediately.
When I was biking a lot almost every day when I reached home I usually fondled my bike by touching its seat and said thank you my baby you took me home safely and I kissed it. When I was biking a down of hill in terrain in a short moment I got my ass over the seat behind and almost touched then the back wheel. I said to myself in my head you got a good bike like you are safe baby. When I couldn´t ride a bike and I went around my baby at home I felt physically warm in my heart. I just love my bike. Dot.
The second case had a different scenario.
I was traveling to Switzerland across Italy when I reached the railway station in Milan from the airport. I was buying a train ticket at a machine, and I just followed the instructions written there. By that time I was approached by a man of origin from Syria or around.
He told me to press this button and then he wanted my money as he helped me. I was a little bit bitchy because I did not ask for help, anything. And he started to be more demanding on money, then I told him No. In a short time, I have become surrounded by a whole group of such men maybe around 7 and the whole group said give us our money.
I looked at their faces, they were completely around me, and I saw how they love me so much like we will kill you. And I said them I will give you NOTHING. I went through them and showed them my back. Plus I had a red tight dress. Well, showing back to your opponent is a very tight moment to evoke an attack from the backside. So I was very attentive and I said to myself at that moment well done baby, really well done. I was a bit ironic to myself like you know how to get in trouble easily.
But here it is, it's not about that some euros are more than my safety and security or life. It is about that sometimes you need to keep up your position towards predators. It is a very tight line but if you give some euros then they could say easily give us more, plus give us your credit cards, then they could say in their head damn she could give us everything, her body too. And Then maybe we have to kill her. It is not about being arrogant or not being aware of the potentially dangerous aspects of such situations and decisions. It is about keeping a position towards others. Sometimes I go directly against my opponent while keeping a distance to get a better option to avoid a direct attack like by knife f.e. And in some situations is good for me to run away as a rabbit.
Situations could have many faces so I have more faces too as situations are different.
Look at to leopards.
They have to be able to survive among bigger hunters via making tactical decisions like for example to leave their prey to another one. They need to be good hunters, super scanning of the environment, and being able to escape from the enemy. Leopards are super succesfull to stay alive and adapt to many environments. They are super smart and crazy a bit.
Every fight costs power and can cost life so it is about calculating too. Cat calculates even jumping. Sometimes you have to go to fight directly if calm acts are not enough and you have no other better option. But It is just my perspective.
Here is another inner aspect that I have found as interesting too, it is the connection and gravity to the the TRUTH. No easy point. Well, How I do perceive the TRUTH? Imagine something like the golden line that goes through everything, every human, every situation. Probably it has its own frequency and by our acting, speaking, and thinking we can oscillate closer to that frequency or further. About that, I will talk more later.
Being honest with ourselves is sometimes cruelly important but it is a part of the whole process.
In my case, since my childhood I have been crazy to be close to the TRUTH, LOVE, and LIGHT. I deeply want to see The Truth no matter how it could affect me or be painful. When it comes to being in a risky situations or just operating environment and myself, I want to see the danger, read intentions of others, and signals from nature totally purely. It means as well I want to go to the core in a second with my eyes and whole my being through other beings or situations with pure heart. Not being just above someone or judge. NO, just to see the super light truth of what is behind to operate situation, and to get the highest raw information that I can reach at that time.
The quality of information that I get from nature, or read from people is crucial to operate the situation on the best level. So I need to get or to see, or read the information that is to high a percentage close to the golden line, to the Truth.
But It means as well I need to osscilate by myself close to the Golden Line. So it is about self-cultivation.
The Truth is connected to being true what is something very special and what we need the most. To BE true humans.
It is a good time to mention one small experience when not knowing the truth was my protection. I was 15 years old. I rode a bike and wanted to reach a cottage. I unlocked the first door outside, and I continued to the cottage. I looked around, unlocked it and got in. At that moment I heard not strongly one two steps on the upper floor and I was just processing in my mind I am hearing steps. At that moment it was like something was whispered to my ear, to my whole being Baby, you are okay, you are safe, you do not need to go up to check that place. That feeling overcame me like I forgot I heard something to some point. But I always check the whole place and the upper floor but not at that time.
I am sure it was not just about I decreased my perception by my mind or like I would say to myself it is nothing baby. No, It was something but from nature.
I have to say right now when we suppress our natural perception by our mind it could lead to hell. Of course, there is a tricky point about mind projections, etc, but it is something different than raw perception.
Back to the story.
I went outside to get a sunbath. I got naked almost. Then I heard softly a jump and running. It was from the backside of the cottage, I couldn´t see anything from my position. What is a funny a bit I can´t remember now what I did exactly after hearing that noise, step by step. I just can´t remember. But interesting is I had experienced more not pleasant situations there. Some time later one neighbor who was living close to the cottage, and had a good view towards the front part informed me that within a week when I was there, and had this experience the lights were switched on inside for several nights.
So someone was there for a couple of days. The Person, who was probably inside when I came there, got a chance to disappear without facing each other which could put that human under high pressure to create disaster. I was just protected by nature somehow.
Why I said this? Because there are many ways and aspects that you can face. It can be totally strange and specific. No limit.
Nature is the highest teacher and leader.
For me.
There is some connected part that has something to do with very fragile and substile thing, and what is that? You could understand to some percentage of universal language of nature. I know it could sound insane but it is not. It is totally natural. And it doesn´t mean not staying grounded and well-rooted. In some point, it is just about being a good observer of signals and going with nature.
When people are living very close to nature their understandings of nature need to go higher and higher to adapt well. And it is just I would say baseline but very strategically important. But it could go deeper and higher.
Personally, I always wanted to understand animals, and plants because everything is communicating and giving and receiving signals.
I want to understand the language of everyone in nature. Because I love nature too so I want to communicate with eagle and with rabbit how it goes. I want to understand what they are talking about. I am not asking them to talk like me, no I want to understand and talk their language somehow.
Then I want to decode any language, pattern, or signal of any human especially if that human is an offender or skilled one or in specific cases the both.
Plus nature knows and nature gives signals too.
Usually I do not try to press another one to speak my language because in my perspective the first what I need is to be the Best observer. My intention is to try to decode any language and its nuances plus be able to speak that language somehow which can put effectivity to solve situations to another level sometimes in my perspective.
Mind is a very specific instrument but could be very tricky as well, it can lead us in a destructive way, paralyze us in danger, etc. It is a place where a lot of things from us, from our souls, our shadows, our traumas are leaking in. I have found important to talk about that gradually, and I will.
But definitively I should mention one point now I would say behind the mind is something like the inner leader and observer. I have met it through more situations and I will talk about it. It is a very interesting part that plays a really specific role. It helped me to go through potentially risky situations and it overcame my average level of my mind naturally or go through it like arising spontaneously in some moment and be totally effective ADVISOR.
Not easy to define it. It is something that is just smarter and wiser than my thinking and processing but I can not say it is just my instinct.
Well, In the part of inner aspects they are remaining still several points to be said in this episode. Let´s go through.
Resources of power.
Well, as for the body is important to have a sufficient reserve of energy for the whole system, the same thing works for your whole being, too. Later I will talk more about it.
Creativity.
Magical free hands.
Creativity is one of the fundamental aspects of the whole universe, from my point of view. Go with that and follow it in peace and in your natural way. I mean it is not about being destructive, aggressive, overactive, etc until the right moment comes. Then there can be a solution to be smartly wild naturally or just be naturally crazy. But we are sometimes naturally retarded, too.
Your home is you.
uilding up yourself as your safe home then You will go back to home always when you need it, and you need to take care of it as about Saint Monastery. This aspect is very important in the self-healing process for the whole life.
Your home is you. If someone has already penetrated your home and misused you, you can heal it with love and other instruments but it doesn´t mean you will not go through a tough process. But I am sure you know it. So take care of yourself as about your best friend.
our specific place, your private space is your territory.
Well, the territory is the best thing. I love it. It needs as more aspects here own space, bigger one.
Give power to you and your hands, and not to the offender.
So do not forget this you have total power from nature to protect your life against someone who threatens you seriously who wants to kill you rape, misuse you. It's natural law. But it is up to you to take it. We forget we need sometimes to fight for our lives no matter if it means staying calm or fighting cruelly or smartly. Every situation could need specific medicine. People are afraid to go through their mind-boarders and do something. It is just a process. But sometimes you have a super short moment to make such a decision. It is important to say it concludes good calculation, good instincts etc usually.
I am not leaving you in this alone, and I understand, it could be heavy. We will talk about that and work with that gradually. It has nothing to do with being aggressive for nothing. No, it means love and fight when you have to and be in peace. The principle and aspect to put always power into your hands, to whole you, and not giving it to any offender have deeper nuances.
Let me now mention one of my experiences. It happened some years ago. After some sports activity, I was waiting at the bus stop. It was already dark, so I checked the environment around me. I didn´t see anyone at that moment, it was a calm place but a bit lonely. After some moment a man arose from the darkness and he was coming to me. He stopped by me and he had a big ax on his shoulder at the moment when he approached me. We weren´t in the village area or at the place where people are chopping wood commonly, etc. He addressed me and his question was Aren´t you afraid to be here such alone?
I swear I wanted to make a joke because imagine a lonely girl waiting at the bus stop in darkness in a lonely place and she is approached by a man with an ax and addressed by question If she is not afraid to be there alone. Well, it was just a good joke and some funny answer almost reached my mouth but I had stopped myself. I didn´t say anything. I perceived, okay, maybe it is a good time to switch mode, now.
I just love myself.
At that moment I became more silent inside and I didn´t show him any reaction, no word, no visible change on my face. I let him talk and I started to read that person. He was around 55 years old, he was a bit under the influence of alcohol but very well controlling his movement. Alcohol can make reactions slower but a person can be more aggressive, and alcohol can trigger some shadow parts, especially in combination with drugs, medicines, and specific diseases. He continued and tried to reformulate that question. I let him talk I didn´t react, I looked at his body, the distance between us, it was between 1,5 and 2 m, and calculated my escape ways, which way, how, when and I got ready if he physically started to act in a destructive way towards me. I was calm. I didn´t perceive I should give him any kind of my reaction, my presence or my energy. I don t give him myself I stayed inside of me. My power worked inside. It doesn´t mean that sometimes you do not need to fight cruelly.
It was a very good test of my neuronal system and my nerves at that time. He tried again and again to put me under pressure of circumstances. I bet he wanted to see my fear. But I only let him talk and tried to secure my position and stay safe no matter what was in his head. It took maybe around 10, 15 minutes, not sure. Then he just left. May I say he didn´t want to hurt me? I am not sure. I prefer to be open than put on the table a bad conclusion that I could regret later and forever.
Every situation is different so the same solution for two similar scenarios
doesn´t need to work well.
Sometimes offender wants to get all your power under his influence then you have become more powerless and you would believe more to the option there is no another way than be eaten. They do not want you to see solutions or read signals, and act well.
So Please always keep power for yourself. Forever. It is the golden rule. Again it is not about visible agressivity for nothing, it is an inner approach but it doesn´t mean there will be no following efficient reaction, it is about leading power and understanding the nature of the situation. It could be very calm and smooth as well as very fast and efficient with power or just being damn more crazy than offender. No limit.
For this episode, I have chosen several concrete inner aspects, not all of them, and of course, it depends on how you define a structure of it. When such aspects are missing or they are not understood well or are ignored, it can lead to potentially dangerous things like the wrong approach or conclusion which is not detected and even reflected in dynamic time.
To set up the best approach to every situation starts with you.
But life is wild and can always surprise you. It is natural character of it.
Now we comes to aspects of the Heart and soul or spirit.
That is a specific part and deserves its own space and will get it. Our heart is a huge reservoir of our power in life. Then spiritual protection oh, there are many things. We will talk about them later in a special episode.
Outer aspects
Well, it is the scene, the whole situation with many aspects and influences flows in many ways and from more resources.
Understanding of situations and their nuances, calculating and reflecting yourself is a part of good assessment.
Natural powers, deep systems, instincts, etc are there to assist you.
But It is your own way.
About specific constellations of situations we will talk separately but always first is developing a leader, operator, YOU.
Take from this episode what suits you well for the current time.
It is important. No need to overwhelm your system. You got your own leadership.
If you have to go through hell you are able to do it. If you bring yourself to your hell you can find way a from it. That´s it.
The next time we will continue. now, thank you.
Be kind to yourself and towards others because life can be cruel enough.
But wisely.
All good to you, stay safe.
With love, FOX.